Many people come across this situations and its not so tough dealing with this.
What if someone says they dont love you anymore?????
Say " It's ok, no problem!"
Walk away from her life without making a fuss or any hatred for her. After all when heart breaks it makes no sound.
Hate shouldn't be the outcome of love. But, you loved her and you must be feeling devastated.
Hmmm.. Take an isolated corner and sit down with a pen and diary. Start writing about how you are feeling right now. Write about all the things that are on your mind related to her. Put all the thoughts on paper.
Don't stop, just keep writing and writing. You must have many things to write. She didn't said those words that she don't love you anymore all of a sudden.
She must be giving non verbal clues, may be you were too much in love with her to notice that. Or, maybe you didn't wanted to believe those writing on the walls.
When you wake up, just read all what you wrote. You will learn many things. Introspect and you will find the reason why she stopped loving you! Don't feel that she is bad. Don't think you're bad just because she don't love you. Life is all about experiences. It's a hell of experience which will help you be a better and stronger person in future.
Make a to-do list of your weaknesses and work upon them. Engage yourself in meaningful activities. Stay away from your girlfriend online/ offline and someday when you overcome your heartbreak let them know about the lessons you learned and how it felt.
Relationship is dead without love. So, no point in dragging something which is dead. If something is going to happen, it will happen.
Enjoy life. Learn Empathy. You know how it feels to be ignored, humiliated, hurt and rejected. Never do that to anyone ever.
Get up and fight your own thoughts. After 5 years you both might be laughing over what she did and what you did?
Life is beautiful! Failure doesn't makes one a loser.
Learn your lessons, never get overly attached to someone. Never let anyone else take charge of your happiness.
I would also like to add that never indulge in "jealousy" tactics, like putting up pictures of yourself or trying to show what a fun time you are having or how many people have been asking you out (even though a lot people do).
It will be difficult to not fall for these petty games, but make sure moving on was about you and yourself. If you still care enough to make her jealous or if you still care about what she thinks of you, then you are subconsciously not over her.
Besides, if she couldn't appreciate you when you were together, she'll never regret "losing you". So really, just move on.
It is great fun being single and non answerable to anyone.
Melt your heart for someone more deserving next time and i am sure u will find soon.
Just Remember
No comments:
Post a Comment