Be Gentle and Be A Man

Many people come across this situations and its not so tough dealing with this.


What if someone says they dont love you anymore?????

Say " It's ok, no problem!" 

Walk away from her life without making a fuss or any hatred for her. After all when heart breaks it makes no sound.

Hate shouldn't be the outcome of love. But, you loved her and you must be feeling devastated. 

Hmmm.. Take an isolated corner and sit down with a pen and diary. Start writing about how you are feeling right now. Write about all the things that are on your mind related to her. Put all the thoughts on paper. 

Don't stop, just keep writing and writing. You must have many things to write. She didn't said those words that she don't love you anymore all of a sudden.

She must be giving non verbal clues, may be you were too much in love with her to notice that. Or, maybe you didn't wanted to believe those writing on the walls.


When you wake up, just read all what you wrote. You will learn many things. Introspect and you will find the reason why she stopped loving you! Don't feel that she is bad. Don't think you're bad just because she don't love you. Life is all about experiences. It's a hell of experience which will help you be a better and stronger person in future.

Make a to-do list of your weaknesses and work upon them. Engage yourself in meaningful activities. Stay away from your girlfriend online/ offline and someday when you overcome your heartbreak let them know about the lessons you learned and how it felt. 

Relationship is dead without love. So, no point in dragging something which is dead. If something is going to happen, it will happen. 

Enjoy life. Learn Empathy. You know how it feels to be ignored, humiliated, hurt and rejected. Never do that to anyone ever.

Get up and fight your own thoughts. After 5 years you both might be laughing over what she did and what you did?

 Life is beautiful! Failure doesn't makes one a loser.

Learn your lessons, never get overly attached to someone. Never let anyone else take charge of your happiness.

I would also like to add that never indulge in "jealousy" tactics, like putting up pictures of yourself or trying to show what a fun time you are having or how many people have been asking you out (even though a lot people  do). 

It will be difficult to not fall for these petty games, but  make sure moving on was about you and yourself. If you still care enough to make her  jealous or if you still care about what she thinks of you, then you are subconsciously not over her. 

Besides, if she couldn't appreciate you when you were together, she'll never regret "losing you". So really, just move on.

It is great fun being single and non answerable to anyone.

Melt your heart for someone more deserving  next time and i am sure u will find soon.

Just Remember

RELATIONSHIP WITH AN INTROVERT

Just read this post and found it so TRUE and awesome because being an INTROVERT, I can relate everything written to myself!!

This is how INTROVERTS are in a relationship

1.       He loves unconditionally. He doesn't care about more than 2-3 people in his life.  His world revolves around those some  people. He will care for them fiercely, do anything to keep them happy.

2.      He doesn't need approval for all he does from the whole world on Facebook. Those some people approving his actions/purchases/choices/decisions is enough. No show-off.

3.      He is generally misjudged by her friends, since he doesn't really talk in front of them.

4.      He's very patient. He never puts her down. He's great when teaching her something she don't know.

5.      He can text her ALL DAY LONG but gets cold feet when asked for a phone-call.

6.      He's hopeless at expressing his feelings. Texts are okay. Doing so over phone is no less than punishment for him.

7.      He's mostly happy in his bubble. He doesn't need to talk all day long or anything. He's happy having his own time.

8.      He never texts when he knows she is out with other people. He lets her have "her time".

9.       He's not going to cheat. He doesn't even look at any other girl anymore.

10.   He hates confrontations, or fights, or "talking it out". He'd rather just forget about it or postpone the talk indefinitely.

11.    He hates group activities such as dancing and singing. He hates being watched.

12.   He loves or hates fiercely. There's no "in-between" zone or frenemies for him. He either likes you or doesn't.

13.   He's not fine with PDA.

14.   He walks on the side of the road where there is traffic. It's so nice when someone is being protective without being over-protective.

15.   He doesn't get jealous that easily. Or maybe like every other emotion he doesn't really express it.

16.   He smiles often. He's a sweet person. But once in a while, he laughs. He throws his head back and laughs like a little kid.

17.   Since he's not that expressive, when he does finally say something sweet it feels very special.

 The amount of care, energy and thought he puts into the relationship is unparalleled.